Enjoying a leisurely drink with my trolley dolley friends round a pool in the arse end of the world the conversation soon turned to cheating partners.
I myself have been cheated on, shocking I know, who wouldn't want to be with me? Gorgeous, down to earth and low maintenance. But what can I say; it happens to the best of us. I was cheated on for months before I found out the good for nothing, ugly twatted dried up spunk stain (not bitter at all), had already begun planning setting up house with his bit on the side.
Obviously in this circumstance my ex hadn't just shagged someone else and that was it, he'd formed an emotional bond, having his cake and eating it, actually after bumping into him last month I'd say he's ate the whole bakery (again not bitter).
What I'm getting at is this; is it possible to forgive infidelity as long as it is just a shag? Does it become impossible to forgive if they go back for seconds, or worse if they go back for drinks and snacks?
Brushing aside the likes of swingers, I'm very open minded, I just think they're greedy sluts, is it fine to have sex outside the relationship as long as no emotional bonds are made?
Sitting around the pool some strong opinions are vented; personally I just think the dirty dicks should keep it in their pants, however, I was strongly disagreed with by my senior who simply stated, 'let him shag who he wants as long as he doesn't go back for canopies.' As wonderful as she is, the night before she did come out with the comment 'I'm going to ride him like Sea Biscuit darling,' so you could argue she's more liberal than me.
So what is correct, am I just a norrow minded prude? Perhaps I should just take myself to the nearest gay sauna and try and broaden my horrizons. On second thoughts you don't know what you might catch; I hear varuccas are rife.